So much has happened it’ll be impossible for me to remember everything but I’ll try to stay in chronological order.
There I am with markers on my head. They did the MRI with these things on so they could know exactly where to slice and dice. I remember this part but it’s pretty fuzzy. I do remember being in the MRI machine and hitting the alarm button because I started freaking out. Luckily they got all the images they needed to before that happened. Side note: I came back for an MRI post op and I had an oxygen tank under my bed. You’re not supposed to have anything metal in an MRI machine. Once they slid me out, I heard a loud “thud.” That was the tank falling down. I’m glad I wasn’t still in there.
I woke up the morning after the 18 hour surgery with a breathing tube in my mouth. There were people all around the bed, Kelsey was there and says I just stared at her. I surprisingly stayed calm while they pull the tube out. I remember asking why I was upside down over and over again. I was lying flat but something was up with my nerves that made me feel like I was being held upside down. I had a tough time letting that one go, I must have asked 10 times why I was upside down.
Here I am in the ICU where I spent the next few days. They checked my vitals constantly, and then later hourly, and asked me to do things like smile, puff my cheeks, shrug my shoulders, etc to make sure I could still move both sides. I could understand questions clearly but it took me a while to respond, it was hard to get my brain to work again. I could tell I was going to be fine, everything was just slow. Also, my left vocal cord is paralyzed, so I could barely get a whisper out and swallowing was all but impossible. A few nights in the ICU were really hard. I couldn’t sleep well despite the pain medicine and somehow the call button on my bed didn’t work. No call button and no ability to yell meant no help. I tried whispering for help several times to no avail. Later someone told me the bed was unplugged and that’s why the call button wasn’t working. Awesome.
60 staples. Just had them removed yesterday. Not pleasant. I think when I was being rolled around outside the operating room I heard something like “it’s not everyday you see a bilateral craniotomy.” Felt like some docs were trying to scrub in just like on Grey’s Anatomy.
I’ve been home for a few days now, every day gets better. I can move around, go up and down stairs, eating a bit more. Oh, here’s some fun facts. Pre op weight = 180 lbs. Weight 2 days ago = 168 lbs. No bowel movement for 12 days. That’s right 12 days. Post bowel movement weight = 165 lbs. I’ll save the gory details, but 3 pounds! That’s a lot of poop.
Pathology. Grade 2 ependymoma as expected. Meeting with oncologists next week to figure out start time of radiation and chemo.
Surgery Wednesday to “fix” my vocal cord. It’s a quick surgery. They basically inject me with Botox and it closes up the space in my throat making it possible for me to talk and swallow normally. If there’s any extra I’ve asked they touch me up around the eyes and forehead. There’s an outpatient procedure where they perform this which I tried, but I passed out. I don’t know if it was the probe going up my nose and down my throat or the two needle injections directly into my throat that did it. I had a vasovagal response they think. Not the first time that’s happened to me. I was donating platelets once and the technician said the same thing to me when I passed out.
Ok, that’s all for now. Big shout out to the best wife in the world who is dealing with a newborn, a kid entering the terrible 2s, getting no sleep and still taking care of me. And my parents who have been helping with everything. This would be so much harder without them.
Marcela Robles (Dueñas) said:
I admire your strength!
Wishing you a speedy recovery!
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Naomi S said:
Damn don’t they make sure those call buttons are working? That’s just not right. Glad to get an update from you and even more glad you’re kicking ass.
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Carrie said:
Thanka for the update, glad that you are home and are able to be up and moving some. Keep up the good work and strong attitude.
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Erica Bonetti said:
Keeping you and your family in my prayers and thoughts. May each day be easier for all of you.
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Susan Bowers said:
Hi Ronnie,
Great picture, definitely goes in the family album.
I know that every day will just get better. It’s funny how we take our bodies so for granted until some part of it doesn’t work. Time is your friend. One day this will be a distant, but vivid memory.
It’s wonderful your parents are there. I just pray that you and your whole family can experience God’s peace through this time; He is there loving all of you. Praying extra blessings for Kelsey. When this is all over she is going to have to schedule a breakdown for herself. Hang in there Kelsey. Sending love and prayers to you all.
Blessings,
Susan
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Joan Davis said:
Phew, that was a LONG time to be in surgery! Thank goodness it’s over! The next part will be a piece of cake, compared to what you’ve been through. My prayers are with you.
Hugs,
Joan Davis
15 year brain cancer survivor
Member of Debi’s Church
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Katherine said:
Praise, praise, praise! I can see God’s hand moving among you and your family as you go through the storm. Praise for the peace He has given you, for the surgeon He led you to choose, for the strength your wife has received and all the support and love poured out on you. Praise that it seems no serious complications have resulted from the surgery. Praise that you can eat and poop! I always celebrate that myself. : )
Praise for the humor He has given you and the recovery you are experiencing.
He is in total control and is so merciful!
Will continue to lift you and your family up in prayer.
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Ardie ... From Calvary Bible Church said:
Just found your blog … But have been praying for you and your family for a long time. Praise God for answered prayer!
The Lord sustained you through that terrible ordeal and you have emerged with your sense of humor and important faculties all functioning well … Even the successful “poop” outcome (pun intended).
Will continue to pray for the Lord’s healing hand on you … And the strength Kelsie needs to take care of her family. Praise God that Maggie is “retired” and able to stay as long as you need her. I pray for her peace and strength … But see it in her texts that are so full of praise and prayers as she continues to trust Jesus.
May The Lord bless you and your precious little family as He holds you close and works things all together … In HIS joy … Ardie
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Shuchi said:
So glad to get an update from you… and kudos to your wife for her strength. You are an inspiration… Wish you speedy recovery. I will not forget to remember you in my prayers…
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Maggie (Ronnie's Mom) said:
April 19 marked a turning point in our lives. It was the day we received the news of your tumor. These are things that happen to other people, one doesn’t expect any of these awful things to touch your dear ones. Your father and I hurt badly for you and turned to the only One who can do all things. It is always God who has the power but we are more inclined to see Him when we know we are completely impotent to do anything. We have asked God continually to give you life, to give you strength, to sustain Kelsey, to give wisdom to the doctors, to sustain the doctors during the long hours of surgery and many more things, for with God all things are possible. And God has answered our prayers by keeping you alive through this amazing surgery, and many of the bad things that could have happened, have not happened.
Looking back, I can see the Lord’s mercy by having Beni Storm born the day after the bad news. She is a ray of hope in this storm, a gift from above to take you away from bad thoughts. You have a loving wife, an adorable little boy and now this beautiful baby girl! So, there may be war ahead but there are incentives to fight that war and God in His providence had you at the right place, at the right time, with the most qualified medical team. I usually want to see a miracle and asked God for one big one but He has two ways of doing things; by an evident miracle with no human intervention and by using people and circumstances. Nevertheless, it is always Him for no bird falls to the ground apart from His will.
The day of the surgery I was asking God why didn’t You do the miracle I asked You? And He said: “I am doing it, but My way. Remember My ways are higher than your ways.” So I wait to see this happen and I trust you will be completely healed and I will continuously pray to the Father for all this to pass and for you and your family to have many days of joy ahead, in Jesus’ mighty name.
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Peter and Debi said:
Ronnie and Kelsey:
You guys are in our thoughts and prayers throughout the day (and night, as you can see). We are there for you—and hope that you will feel completely free to call upon us for little or big things. His arms encircle you, and yours.
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BrittanyReid said:
You are very strong! I am so happy to keep hearing your recovery is going well!!
Brittany
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Tom W said:
Relieved and grateful to hear you’ve successfully navigated phase 1 with your mind and spirit intact. You are doing it, Ronnie! Kudos to you, Kelsey, and the parents! Stay strong and brave – you’ve got so much to live for! Thinking positive thoughts for you every day…
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Michele said:
Ronnie – I am glad to read that you made it through the surgery okay! Your family has been through so much; you are your wife are amazing and I am praying for strength for both of you. And they are not terrible twos, they are terrific! It’s all in the mindset!
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Alana Karen said:
Great to see this update. Thank you for sharing, and keep up all that fighting.
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Maggie (Ronnie's Mom) said:
Today, my baby is THIRTY THREE!!!!!!
Happy birthday my dear Ronnie. This is quite a remarkable day for an age of much significance.
I’m so pleased with your amazing recovery! I am very thankful to God for the way He made your body heal so quickly and I know much better gifts are on their way. I am also thankful to Him for giving me my baby boy! Although 33, you are still my baby. You have brought so much joy to my life! And you still do! I remember when you were attached to me as a little boy, when you started school, when you learn tae kwon do and we went to the events; when you made those baskets and scored so many points for your High School basketball team and your dad and I jumped up and down on the bleachers; when you received awards for being among the best students; when you graduated Valedictorian of a class of about 500; when you went to Stanford and graduated; when you married Kelsey and now having Jett and Beni. But the most remarkable moment of all in my mind still remains June 9, 1980 around 6:30 AM when I saw you for the very first time bundled up, without crying, big eyes looking at everything, the most beautiful baby!
I wanted to be among the first people to wish you happy birthday so here I’m writing around 5:30 AM.
I know papito would want me to say that he also enjoyed all those things and I’m sure you know how much he loves you and he will be calling you to tell you.
Today is a day of celebration at the Rondo’s home and I’m privileged to be here to do so.
Love you very much, mamita.
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Kendra Haas said:
So glad to read your updates & see good news. So happy to see your sense of humor…you really are an inspiration & after reading your Mom’s comments here, I see why youre so awesome! Ronnie & Kelsey, youre amazing! Maggie, youre amazing. Such inspiring words that teach us all what faith really is. Prayers continuing for all of you.
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